Expectation. Good or Bad?

I have been having lunch with my colleagues for quite some time, and often there will be something of interest that is being discussed or shared. During a recent lunch, one of my colleague talked about something that have kept me thinking for a very long time. Since... at least 3 years ago?

How can a girl judge a guy? One of my uber pretty colleague (i'm being held at knife point, forgive me lord) was telling us the same story, indicating that no one was going after her. I myself can't comprehend how did she manage to tell such a huge lie so naturally. But that's not the main point and of course the limelight isn't on her in this topic too. Someone gonna kill me when she sees this. LOL! Somehow, one of my male colleague said something that is totally the same as i have thought.

Some guys are super romantic and "Mr Nice Guy" during the courtship period. Beyond that comes the ugly true self. Girls often fall for the illusions surrounding them. Oh come on, who can resist a prince charming who is seemingly forever romantic? Each and every of his action is so gentlemanly, and he will even slap himself hard in the face for letting off a burp that is as audible as a bat's voice.

Here here, i'm not blaming anyone, this is truly irresistable an offer to miss. Yea, thats where the saying that "People in love have their IQ literally cut by half" proves its worth. Can anyone maintain "Mr Nice Guy" for his whole life? If you think you are up for it, prove it to me. I'm willing to share 80% of my fortune with you by the time you drop dead while still remain as a "Mr Nice Guy". At least spare me the 20% for my children k?

Wouldn't it be worse for a girl to be disillusioned and to suffer real hard in the future, not prepared for the reality? So, to allow the girls to be able to make an informed decision (wow, that's 3 'to' in a row!), shouldn't the guy expose the girls to the real him and tell them to accept him as he is? (that's 5 now!) Sound crazy? Definitely. That leaves us with the choice to be... "Mr Nice Guy"?

Since this is the way it has to be, girls shouldn't whine about how much their boyfriends have changed before and after courtship, how irresponsible the guys are. In fact, they are very wrong. I wonder who gave them the misconception that their boyfriends CHANGED. The answer is they DID NOT. All they did was to peel off the SK2 mask and decided that it's more cost-efficient to go without it. Facial mask should be made cheaper in Singapore!!! Oh yea, that's about it.