Single and Available. Looking for someone to keep me attached!
As i have always said, knowing more about the opposite sex and getting into romances are very good ways to learn and grow. Who are you to say that a particular person is your Mr/Mrs Right just by judging using your pair of naked eyes? Perhaps a little brain? Oh duh, come on, give me a break. =P The difference between courtship and relationship is that, one is under NO pressure at all, while the other is CONSTANTLY under pressure.
In this year, from my experience and lesson learned, i have come to realise a few points that will most probably aid me in finding a girl that will be my dream girl.
1) Trust. Still the most important thing. It is easy for people to trust me, but i would like to be able to gain trust from my partner from her actions.
2) No two-timer (or N-timer) please. I am totally intoloerant of people like this. My definition of two-timer is that, when a person is in a romance (not necessarily in a relationship), he/she should not be partaking in other romantic stuffs with others. Even though i encourage people to go for romances as much as possible, but the rule of thumb is that, once you are supposed to be dedicated, you should be.
3) Presentable. Yup, this is about appearance. A girl need not have to be all cutesy or drop-dead gorgeous. If you fall under the above 2 categories, who cares what you wear. But if you're not, please, at least wear something decent. Wearing school T-shirt and shorts for a dining out date is horrible. The second time you commit the same mistake despite me telling you just means that you can forget about it. Telling me how much you enjoy being out with me won't save anything. I demand at least a little respect in this aspect.
4) "Nothing". Ok. This is seriously annoying. If you are going to freak out all of a sudden, at least god damn it tell me the reason. When i ask, i expect a reply or at least a clue to what contributed to your sudden moodswing by the 3rd try. Any attempts made by me beyond the 3rd one will no longer be romantic-oriented, neither will i be nasty. Silence is golden. If that's what you want, be it. Oh, don't come crying to me 5 minutes later, dying to tell me everything. It's over. At least for that date.
5) Attention. Hey, when you're going out with me, at least pay me some attention. Leaving me alone while entertaining yourself? Wow. I was glad i ended that date fast. This is optional, depending on how much i love the girl. If my love for her is more than her love for me, i would do anything in a relationship. :P
That's all for now. So... anyone has any girls to introduce? =P i hope my experience and realisation doesn't scare anyone out there. I'm just being frank, and maybe a girl might just changed my thinkings once and for all.
*Currently Single And Available. No Romance In Progress As Of 17th May 2009 21:53pm. =) *
In this year, from my experience and lesson learned, i have come to realise a few points that will most probably aid me in finding a girl that will be my dream girl.
1) Trust. Still the most important thing. It is easy for people to trust me, but i would like to be able to gain trust from my partner from her actions.
2) No two-timer (or N-timer) please. I am totally intoloerant of people like this. My definition of two-timer is that, when a person is in a romance (not necessarily in a relationship), he/she should not be partaking in other romantic stuffs with others. Even though i encourage people to go for romances as much as possible, but the rule of thumb is that, once you are supposed to be dedicated, you should be.
3) Presentable. Yup, this is about appearance. A girl need not have to be all cutesy or drop-dead gorgeous. If you fall under the above 2 categories, who cares what you wear. But if you're not, please, at least wear something decent. Wearing school T-shirt and shorts for a dining out date is horrible. The second time you commit the same mistake despite me telling you just means that you can forget about it. Telling me how much you enjoy being out with me won't save anything. I demand at least a little respect in this aspect.
4) "Nothing". Ok. This is seriously annoying. If you are going to freak out all of a sudden, at least god damn it tell me the reason. When i ask, i expect a reply or at least a clue to what contributed to your sudden moodswing by the 3rd try. Any attempts made by me beyond the 3rd one will no longer be romantic-oriented, neither will i be nasty. Silence is golden. If that's what you want, be it. Oh, don't come crying to me 5 minutes later, dying to tell me everything. It's over. At least for that date.
5) Attention. Hey, when you're going out with me, at least pay me some attention. Leaving me alone while entertaining yourself? Wow. I was glad i ended that date fast. This is optional, depending on how much i love the girl. If my love for her is more than her love for me, i would do anything in a relationship. :P
That's all for now. So... anyone has any girls to introduce? =P i hope my experience and realisation doesn't scare anyone out there. I'm just being frank, and maybe a girl might just changed my thinkings once and for all.
*Currently Single And Available. No Romance In Progress As Of 17th May 2009 21:53pm. =) *
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