Recent incidents have made me realized that, not everyone can live the way that will benefit them the most. Since young, i have encouraged people to do things that are "right" for them. Things that will provide the best gain or minimal damage in a particular situation. A few managed to follow my advices and were really grateful to me, while the rest remained lost in their "denial" state. As always, thoughts such as "why are they so stubborn?", "why are they so silly?" kept racing through my mind, and there was nothing more i can do no matter how hard i try.
Finally, i was able to come to a conclusion. Not everyone has the ability to do things my way. To them, my ways are "wrong" in the perspective of the society. Things should be done the traditional "right" way and damages are unavoidable. People having this mentality just do not have the courage to give new things a try. Now i know, i was wrong to try bringing them out of their circles in the first place. Yes, people like them should stay in their circles and never step out of it. I should not be stepping into their circles too since our circles will remain disjoint no matter how hard i try.
If they really did take my advice, will i be happy too? I would have perhaps merge their circles with circles of some other people while the 2 of us remaining disjoint. Why would i do that...? That was because i was thinking of a way that could minimize the damage and provide the best for him/her. No matter the result, i would hope that after everything, our circles would remain disjoint as it is now, and no more effort is being dished out anymore. Effort should be put into something that is beneficial to myself, instead of what i used to do in the past, thinking too much for the person involved.
